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This football book is curiously tedious, yet oddly compelling. Even title causes confusion. Dear England already is used by a popular play, an upcoming television program, and a public letter penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England is not officially connected to any of those. It exists as an oddity in the Dear England Multiverse, a book about management: a typically dull top-level coach subject that the author adheres to relentlessly, using the words “leader”, “guiding” or “leadership” no fewer than 500 times across its 336-page length.

Themes Posed

“Who are the leaders? What do leaders do? What insights do leaders have?” Southgate inquires at the outset, establishing his stall, but stopping short to ask “Why are leaders?”, topics likely set aside for a future volume.

Otherwise, this book contains a notable absence throughout. It’s an attempt in passive-aggressive self-justification, in nearly but not entirely stating the underlying truth, jumping nimbly from lingering grievance to unscabbed wound across a series of pie charts, business clichés and digressions about historical figures.

Engagement

Engaging with the text is like eavesdropping on your loved ones having a controlled but intensely emotional debate in the adjacent space while you’re attempting to pay attention on a professional workshop named “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also impossible to disengage, as the author keeps approaching to a topic you actually wish to discover, before suddenly veering away.

Revelations

There are inevitably news headlines in publications in this genre, due to the intense obsession with the role of England manager. The most notable instances encompass: he made up his mind he was absolutely going to step down as England manager after fans threw containers at him at the European Championship; he almost chose to withdrawing from the game at half-time against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his team were subjected to racism; he invented the approach of specialist dead-ball trainers and all teams in the English football is now copying him; he has now misplaced his passion for football, a startling confession briefly included in a brief section at the final part.

Guiding England through a era of anger, aspiration, upheaval and confinement was a brutal ordeal. The bruises are evidently still raw.

Commonplace Material

Throughout much of the book, the narrative is flooded with an AI-style verbal clutter of generic leadership chat. Advanced copies of this book were provided with reviewers under non-disclosure agreements prior to launch, presumably out of fear someone might disclose that “tough talks can, by their very essence, be difficult”, that you should always consider the consequences, that management occurs where transformation meets understanding.

Emotional Core

Readers will find nonetheless genuine emotion present. Managing England through a time of rage, aspiration, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a brutal journey. The wounds are clearly still raw, even if conveyed in a terminology-heavy reinvention of the standard leader story: demonstrating my accuracy about all matters throughout.

Detailed Instances

Even book’s opening passage, disguised as exciting memories of the deciding game of the tournament, is all about how successful Southgate actually was at tactical substitutions (the primary criticism of Southgate centering on he was not effective at substitutes). Further on, he goes into significant detail about how he handled the deciding game of 2021 impeccably – notably the losing penalty shootout – because he followed a established procedure, which must mean that throwing on inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the crucial shot of their lives was sensible and right.

This was proved right by a successful tiebreaker against the Swiss team in a subsequent competition after a game where England spent the entire match looking as if they were striving to don a sweater the inside out. “Our dominance in that tiebreaker was truly thrilling,” Southgate writes, while likening the showing to special forces eliminating a high-profile target. Oh Gareth.

Missed Opportunities

On the occasions we do get close to a insight, he backs away from identifying individuals or sharing the details. We discover there were problematic England players who required more consideration, maybe because they were spoilt at the start of their careers. But as you lean forward eagerly, he is quickly veering off into an area titled The Culture Code, which states that rather than a collection of attributes or ideals, team environment is in fact something that is formed by, alas, enough, no more.

Strengths

Among the better parts are when he explores about the incremental process of building fortitude in young people, or how he tried to articulate Englishness more coherently and more helpfully than anyone else in the limelight. The standout section, there is a genuinely absorbing account of that harrowing evening in Sofia where England’s black players were targeted with hatred (and subsequently defended robustly by their leader).

Genuine Ending

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